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A Nigerian man has sparked a heated discussion on social media after narrating how he ended his relationship with his girlfriend on the very first day he visited her family.
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In a post on X (formerly Twitter), a user identified as Richmond revealed that he decided to end the relationship after his girlfriend’s elder brothers asked him for money during his first visit to their home.
Man Shares His Experience
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Richmond wrote: “I ended a relationship couple of years ago, because the first time I visited her family, her two elder brothers begged me for money.”
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His post quickly went viral, drawing mixed reactions from social media users who shared their own thoughts and experiences.
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Mixed Reactions Trail His Post
Many users supported Richmond’s decision, saying such behaviour from his girlfriend’s family was a red flag.
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A user identified as Mr Xperience commented: “Valid ooo! apart from becoming the entire family bread winner, You go just inherit foundational problems way you no plan for! ”
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Another user, Mother land, also agreed with Richmond’s action, saying: “Valid. There are head ups you should never ignore. No matter how you put this, it’s so disgraceful. I like that you put ‘the first time I visited.’
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“It shows you are a real nigga who knows over time, he could give them something. First time is a big no..says alot about the family.”
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Others Share Similar Experiences
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Some users went on to share personal experiences that aligned with Richmond’s story.
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Uncle Cellz wrote: “I also didn’t consider someone because she told me that all her 4 elder brothers are not doing anything tangible and still live in their father’s house..”
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Kwara man commented: “Valid…..my ex elder bro is still owing me 2k….they feel since you fucking their sis…. make them self benefit from her Bobo.”
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Another user, Fummy, sympathised with the lady, stating: “Her elder brothers are shameless…she might not be aware they wanted to do such. E pain me for the lady though. It’s how almost everyone is saying valley d until it’s their turn.”
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Family Background Matters
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Adding to the conversation, Chidi VigourJr gave his perspective on the importance of family background in relationships.
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He wrote: “It’s better to marry an irresponsible girl from a very responsible family than to marry a responsible girl from an irresponsible family. You did the right thing.”
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Richmond’s revelation continues to spark debate online, with many agreeing that a partner’s family background can strongly influence the success or failure of a relationship.
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