A man has sparked debate after outlining nine non-negotiable conditions he expects a woman to meet before he agrees to marry her, including preparing his meals, obeying his instructions and prioritising their home over her career.
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In his list, the man made it clear that he wanted a marriage built around traditional gender roles, financial accountability and specific expectations concerning his prospective wife’s appearance and sexual relationship with him.
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His conditions have drawn attention to the expectations some people bring into relationships and the potential disagreements couples may face when their views on marriage differ.
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Man explains expectations for his future wife
Among his most controversial demands, the man insisted that he must have control over his wife’s movements, clothing and social interactions.
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He also stated that he would not marry a woman he considered overweight and would send his wife away if she gained weight after their wedding.
On family responsibilities, he said, “I provide, you nurture. I support you and you support me.”
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The man further ruled out marrying a single mother, arguing that he would struggle to regard her child as his own and expressing concerns about possible interference from the child’s biological father.
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He also insisted that his wife must not have a job that keeps her outside the home after 7 pm, adding that she would have to quit if her working hours conflicted with his expectations.
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Financial and sexual expectations spark debate
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The man also demanded accountability for money given to his wife, insisting that he must approve major expenses.
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On intimacy, he said he expected a partner who enjoyed sex, initiated it and remained willing to explore different experiences.
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He maintained that he was not forcing anyone to accept his conditions, describing them as his personal non-negotiables.
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His list raises questions about compatibility, personal autonomy and how couples negotiate expectations before marriage.
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