“I don nearly turn to side chick, they warned me, I no hear” — Woman regrets leaving her 8-year marriage

A Nigerian woman has cried out for help after expressing regret over leaving her eight-year marriage, saying she has struggled to find a committed relationship three years after walking away from her husband.

The woman, who has three children with her estranged husband, disclosed that she left the marriage because she suspected him of infidelity, despite warnings from her parents against the decision.

In a viral video, she appealed to the public for help, saying she never imagined that her life would take such a turn after leaving her matrimonial home.

“I regret leaving my marriage of eight years. Now, I don nearly turn to side chick. I beg make una help me,” she said.

She further revealed that she had been away from her husband’s home for three years and appealed to people to help her avoid becoming a side chick.

“I get three children with my husband. But because I feel say my husband dey cheat on me na him make me leave my husband. And they warned me, my parents warned me, I no hear,” she added.

Lady reacts, advises women against hasty separation

Reacting to the video, another woman questioned what kind of assistance the mother of three expected from the public.

“So, wetin you really won’t make we do for you now?” she asked.

She argued that some women mistakenly believe that leaving their marriages would automatically lead them to better relationships, only to discover that many men outside marriage are not necessarily interested in commitment.

“Some women don’t understand that leaving your husband does not mean other men are waiting for you. Some of you think once you leave your marriage, you will find somebody better,” she said.

She further explained that some men in the dating scene are only interested in casual relationships and may have no intention of marrying the women they date.

“And then you discover that the men you are meeting just want to have a taste of you. And most times, these are married men that cannot even leave their wives for you,” she added.

However, she clarified that her comments were not an endorsement of tolerating infidelity in marriage.

“Nobody is telling you to tolerate a cheating partner. It’s a different thing when you catch your partner red-handed than when you are just assuming,” she stated.

She advised women to carefully consider their decisions before ending their marriages, warning that finding another committed relationship may not be easy.

“Before you walk away from your marriage, be sure of what you are doing. This street will not pity you because you are once somebody’s wife,” she said.

Watch the video here…