A woman’s virginity is one of the most controversial topics found in the lips of many today. However, there are a few things that men may not have learnt.
1. A woman’s hymen is not some sort of unbroken seal that signifies first use
A woman’s hymen can be broken by a number of ways which doesn’t include love making. Some of those ways includes, horse back riding, cycling, and so many more. So if your woman tells you that she is a virgin, and you find out that her hymen is broken, this doesn’t necessarily mean that she is lying, her hymen could have got broken by several other ways. A woman’s hymen is not some sort of unbroken seal that signifies first use.
2. A virgin does not necessarily mean “naive”
If you ever think that you can take advantage of a girl because she revealed to you that she is a virgin, you need to think through again. A mother who is sure of her daughter’s purity must have educated her about the affairs of the other gender. Yes, she may be naive in matters relating to the ‘bed’, but she is not stupid. She is not a novice, and most of all, she is not to be messed with.
3. If she is a virgin, respect it
If you happen to come across a virgin in your lifetime, take her serious for she is not wayward. Help her to keep it while you date her. Have intentions to marry her after knowing her personality. Control yourself. Do not be in a hurry to have her body. Respect purity. It is very rare to come by.