A Nigerian mother has taken to TikTok to share a deeply emotional story after her estranged husband, who abandoned her and their daughter ten years ago, suddenly resurfaced demanding custody.
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In the series of videos, the woman posted moments with her daughter, highlighting the bond they’ve built in the father’s absence. According to her, the man had not offered any form of support since disappearing a decade ago, only to reappear with friends to try and claim the child.
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In one clip, she confronts him directly, saying:
“Go and bring your police! You’re coming after 10 years saying trash. After 10 years of singlehandedly fending for myself and the child.”
She continued her outcry in a follow-up post, calling out his entire family for their lack of involvement:
“Since 10 years, all of una no show up. No support from any of una. My daughter no owe any of una 5 kobo. Near my daughter make I show all of una real madness.”
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Addressing a man named Bosun, she recalled the abuse she faced after childbirth:
“As for you Bosun, you were there when your brother was beating me three weeks after I gave birth just because of food, and you didn’t stop him. You even had the nerve to follow them to my shop to threaten me after I left una house 10 years ago. Go and barb your hair first, you look so unkempt and dirty.”
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She described the brutal conditions of her pregnancy, saying:
“I started seeing birth water since I was 5 months pregnant because of everyday beating. Any little misunderstanding like this, he don kick my stomach.”
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Recalling the trauma, she credited her survival to medical help and divine grace:
“Only God and Odunmoluon hospital at Ayegbami Ijebu-Ode saved me and my daughter’s life. None of them show up. Even when I was discharged, I still went back home. 3 weeks after I gave birth, I was beaten like thief because he told me to cook and I didn’t have any money with me.”
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The videos quickly gained traction, prompting a wave of support in the comments from viewers who applauded her strength and resilience in the face of long-standing abandonment and abuse.
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See some reactions below:
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@Bõbby_ÖMÅ : “just put Cameron pepper inside two bucket of water and keep it in case if dey come next time .. u no need all this shout .”
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@KALIS COLLECTION: “na so I dey wait my ex too,my kids now 18yr and 16yrs both in d university now,werey no no how I take dey pay D BELLS university money.”
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@✂️omotanwa_ stichez✂️: “na so my daddy baby came and said he wanted to do DNA test after 11years thank God na postive the result be and i be officer now with higher rank .”
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@Longpass20: “you will still gonna settled it my sister cos he will still collect her kid.”
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@Queenahbi❤️: “Maybe dem don tell them say na the pikin go bring blessing for them .”
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@: “Ashiere plp waiting patiently for my baby father nd his family .”
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@Princess Ewatomi: “go and report and go to human right or get a lawyer make dey no near ur daughter.”
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@AMOKE TO MO PORSCHE : “Me I still Dey wait for my baby daddy to come sha after 7 years dead body go surplus.”
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@titilayomi : “i dey wait for my own cuz I know he will show up ,oma de.” orun kaabo: “if he complete go no be Adeoye born me.”
@Sweetaweni: “Eda werepe siwon lara nah ejoor kosi soldier ni area yen ? ”
@CERTIFIED LONER : “Na so I dey wait for my bby dad to come too them dey even threaten ME with police .”
@Ajike: “american soldier kor london soldier can they even try this outside nigeria .”
@To~sin❤️❤️: “Anybody wey go collect my child from me go try ooo..because I no go gree.”
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