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A 41-year-old woman has stirred reactions online after sharing her regrets about relationship choices she made in her 20s.
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In a candid video, she admitted that she focused heavily on finding a wealthy partner when she was younger, turning down men she described as “good” because they did not meet her financial expectations.
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“At my 20s, I selected a man. I selected a lot. I said to myself… that I can’t settle for less… I need a rich man, I need a wealthy man,” she said, adding that she believed she knew her worth at the time.
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Reflecting on her current situation, she expressed sadness about being single at 41 and said she feels she would have made different decisions if someone had advised her differently earlier in life.
She urged younger women to think carefully about their priorities in relationships and encouraged them not to delay settling down if they desire marriage and family life.
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Her words …
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“If anybody had given me this advice I’m sharing with you, I wouldn’t have been where I am now, single at 41. At my 20s, I selected a man. I selected a lot. I said to myself, in fact, I said to my friends that I can’t settle for less, that I know my rights, I know my worth. I told them that I need a rich man, I need a wealthy man. That I need a man that is going to spoil me, pamper me and all that. It doesn’t mean that I wasn’t seeing good men. I was. But obviously I was looking at money. I was after wealth. But look at me now. 41, still single and searching. At my age, I should be having at least 15 years old kids right now. But look at me, say single and searching, searching. 20 years girls are searching. Me too, I am searching. I feel so ashamed of myself. This is the truth. A lot of girls out there my age will not tell you because of course they regret it behind closed doors. But I don’t feel cool keeping this to myself. Let me save some girls out there. Because if anybody had told me this earlier, I wouldn’t be where I am today. So do wait for a man listening to me. Do wait to share this video. It could really save your sisters out there. It could save your friends, your female friends out there. And if you’re a girl listening to me, try not to settle down in your late 20s to 25s. Once you get to 30, it’s really, really difficult for a man to come by. It’s really difficult. Make use of your youthful exuberant age now. Make use of your beautiful body, your beautiful energetic body now.”
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Watch video below …
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Am still single @ 41 bcos of over selection of men during my time – lady advises younger generation as she shares her experiences pic.twitter.com/F3dC28IYBy
— ChukwuNonso✍️ (@Mazi_Chinonso1) February 12, 2026
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