Omoni Oboli explains why she avoids meddling in her son’s marriage

Nollywood actress and director, Omoni Oboli reveals why she refrains from intervening in her son’s marriage and respecting her daughter-in-law’s independence even if she has concerns.

Advertisment

During her recent appearance on the Dear Ife podcast with Ifedayo Agoro, the mother of three explained her approach to respecting her son and daughter-in-law.

Oboli revealed that she empathizes with her daughter-in-law by placing herself in her shoes instead of solely relying on her perspective.

Advertisment

Drawing from her own experiences, she noted that she, too, got married at 21—the same age her daughter-in-law married her son—and was quite strong-headed. Acknowledging her youthful defiance, Oboli understands that her daughter-in-law would likely prefer not to be controlled.

Advertisment

READ THIS  Nigerian man who returned N1.8 million he found in noodles carton now lives in UK

The seasoned actress also emphasized the importance of sons being able to communicate openly with their mothers on behalf of their wives, reinforcing healthy family boundaries and mutual respect.

“There’s been a few times when my son has come to meet me to say, ‘Mum, Marelle does not like that’ and I have to catch myself back and say ‘Oh, I didn’t mean it that way.’ And it’s okay. So, the fact that your child cannot come to you to say ‘my wife doesn’t like this’, that’s a problem in itself,”.

“I think, first things first, people need to understand and realise that this is now another family. Yes, they are still a part of your family but they now have their own family,”.

Advertisment

Watch the full video below …

READ THIS  Man weeps after seeing the name his girlfriend used in saving his number on her phone (Video)

Advertisment

Advertisment

Check Also

Man narrates how his mother rejected a ₦200k job because it clashed with church hours

A Nigerian man has shared an inspirational tale on social media about his religious mother, …

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *