7 Rules To Follow To Make Relationship Works

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Relationships aren’t difficult, but too many couples prematurely call it quits on their relationship, only to repeat the same problematic patterns in their next relationship. The truth is that most relationships may thrive and continue for a long time if both partners are dedicated to improving their relationship.

Whether you’ve been in a relationship for 50 days or 50 years, here’s how to make it work:

1. Accept conflict as a natural part of life.

Only in Hollywood does perfection exist. Disagreements are bound to arise. Don’t abandon a relationship just because you’ve hit a hard patch, unless you’re dealing with serious issues (such as infidelity, abuse, addictions, legal issues, or violence). As you go through storms together, your trust and commitment grow stronger.

2. Work on your emotional development.

Most people, even those who appear to be “good,” have some inappropriate behaviors that are harmful to themselves and others. Dismissiveness, poor communication skills, and a lack of emotional intelligence are some of the most frequent inappropriate behaviors. You probably have an intuitive notion of where you need to improve, but if you don’t, get input from your partner, acquaintances, or even exes. (Reconnecting with an ex to discuss your virtues and limitations can be a really therapeutic activity, depending on where you’re at mentally with them.) Don’t be scared to admit that you have room for improvement. It is something that everyone does.

3. Give each other some breathing space.

Even those who are in wonderful, loving relationships require time alone. Healthy couples can spend time apart from one another, working on their individual goals, spending time with family and friends, their interests, or simply doing their own thing. Don’t be alarmed if your partner requests space or needs some time to themselves occasionally, and make sure you’re taking time to concentrate on yourself on a regular basis.

4. Develop the mindset of “I’m awesome.”

Your self-worth is determined solely by you. Far too many people measure their self-worth first and foremost by whether or not they have a spouse, and then by the success of their current relationship. However, how you feel about yourself must have little or no effect on your relationship state or your partner’s moods. It makes no difference whether they stay or leave, whether they compliment or condemn you. A third-party opinion, whether good or terrible, should glide off your self-esteem like greased cookware.

5. Take care of your personal needs.

You’re not a child; you’re an adult. As a result, you’re in charge of your life. Do you feel like taking a nap? Go ahead and do it. Do you want some ice cream? Have a few. Do you want to see a movie? While you’re in a relationship, you can ask your partner to assist you in meeting your needs. However, just like you, your partner has his own wants and issues. You should let them take care of their own personal requirements too.

6. Bad behavior should never be rewarded.

Even though you understand why your spouse does harmful things to you occasionally, you must draw a line if they are not striving to change for the better. You’re providing positive encouragement that they don’t need to change if you continue spending time with them. Make a few ground rules. If someone isn’t actively working on themselves right now, don’t wait for them to improve; you can’t have a relationship with their “potential.”

7. Fill it up with love.

Relationships should be enjoyable! And it should be joyful, warm, and full of laughter and love. People in serious relationships tend to forget this, which is why so many couples end up divorcing because they believe the “spark” has died. Make time for your family to play together. When you’re together, create an atmosphere of humor and happiness. Speak sweetly to one another, always. Hug one another, hold hands, and cuddle. These tiny gestures are what make relationships so lovely in the first place, and maintaining these loving habits is crucial to a long-term relationship’s success.